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I have frizzy hair.
Not like “cute little waves” frizzy—I mean the kind of frizz that takes on a life of its own if I let it air dry or if there is even an ounce of humidity in the air (IYKYK). It’s got body. It’s got bounce. And it’s got no chill. I can’t believe I am actually posting this photo.😂
Now, anyone who knows me knows I’ve always been a hair and makeup girl. My mom was that way. So was my grandmother. They never left the house without everything done—and while I don’t need to be “done up” all the time, I like to be. It makes me feel more… me.
And midlife has taught me this: if something makes you feel better and helps you show up in the world with a little more confidence? That’s reason enough to do it.
The Hair Ritual That Keeps Me Sane (And Styled)
If I want smooth, shiny, bouncy hair that I don’t have to mess with for a few days, here’s the reality—I have to blow it out in sections. It takes time. Sometimes I curl it after. But it lasts me several days and saves me from washing and re-styling (because after all that, who wants to do that again the next day).
I took some photos this weekend—frizz and all—just to show you what a difference it makes. And while I was at it, I got another tiny joy in the mail…
Little Autumn Joy, Delivered by Etsy
My new fall phone case came. It’s one of the little seasonal “must-haves” I shared last week, and when I opened the package and saw the cozy, cute design—it made me smile big.
It was a small thing, but it sparked so much joy. I didn’t think I would ever buy a seasonal case, but at this price point, I may just have to do Christmas. Get your phone case here!
So I want to say this clearly for the women like me who are juggling a million things right now:
The smallest joy can bring the biggest smile.
Whether it’s a smooth blowout or a seasonal phone case… you’re allowed to love things simply because they make you feel good.
My Frizz-Fighting Arsenal (a.k.a. The Lineup That Saves My Hair)
Wanna know exactly what I use—and what I cannot live without—for my hair?
Here’s my arsenal.
(Yes, I even have a literal arsenal bag from Amazon that holds it all. Highly recommend.)
Products I swear by:
- Amika Heat Defense Serum – The holy grail heat protectant.
- Olivia Garden Ceramic + Ion Speed XL Round Brush – The perfect size + grip for smoothing without tangling.
- IGK Cash In Instant Repair Serum – Great for smoothing and protecting ends.
- Tangle Teezer Brush – The best for detangling wet hair without breakage.
- Protools Ceramic Ionic Hairdryer – Hard to find right now, but the heat + power combo is elite. (Hot + forceful = bounce + shine.)
- KMS Hair Stay Working Hairspray – Flexible hold that doesn’t make my hair crunchy.
- BAGSMART Travel Toiletry Bag – Holds everything, folds perfectly, and looks cute on my counter.
- My Curling Iron – Currently unavailable, but this is similar!
- TRESemmé Volume Shampoo & Conditioner – My affordable go-to. Adds lift without the weight.
Final Thoughts
Midlife is a wild ride. Hormones, changes, routines that no longer work. But some things? Some things still make you feel like you.
For me, that’s my hair.
A fresh blowout. A fun phone case. A tiny joy that reminds me: I matter, too.
So here’s your permission to take the time, grab the products, do the blowout—even if you’re just heading to Target. You’re worth the effort. ✨
